The question I have been asking myself lately is do we know what a village is. What does the concept of the village look like to people? Who is your village of support helping you to raise your children?. Who is your village of support that you can go to in order to access financial support, or food when you and the children are hungry. Do you have a shoulder to cry on? Or someone to seek advice from when the needs arise.
Do you have someone to aid and support you or do you cry behind a closed door in silence, too afraid of another’s judgements? Worried you will be talked at and viewed under a critical lens. Are some of you to proud to accept you need help or able to even acknowledge your struggling.
When we look at our young people do we view them through a critical lens.
We know how street violence impacts us, but do we fully comprehend how it effects the youth themselves. How many of us assess the needs of support they have. Can anyone function as an island? Can adult or child run life’s journey in their own strength and understanding.
Without unity, love, wisdom, guidance and direction of a village, we become overwhelmed, overloaded and blinded. We become trapped in circumstances with minimal hope and options. The situation appears bleak and suffocating pushing you to become a passive recipient of circumstance.
I lost hope, I felt myself dying inside and contemplated suicide. These young boys seem to be walking the path also contemplating death.
Who is the voice of reason for our young people, to bring that slight interruption for their permanent change. Let’s give them back their villages, let’s give them back a home. Welcome them in and bring them in from the cold. 120 future generations have been lost in 2018 already. Our community is becoming a dying breed. We need our men let’s do what we can to save them
There is an African proverb that states it takes a village to raise a child
We know it takes a whole community interacting with a children to create a safe environment.
It takes a United society to look out for and protect our young and mild
But is it our responsibility to grow and raise every child, dealing with unwanted temperaments.
A child does not only grow up in a single home society.
It is said the child not taught by a parent is taught by the world.
Despite their biological upbringing they are Impacted by their community.
I ask again would the unity of families make Parenthood happily swirl.
How beneficial can it be having the collaboration of wisdom and experiences.
What are the impact on families separated growing children alone by great distance.
Mother’s no longer at home, through change in needs, they are forced to work.
When the parents were at home less children put value into posting videos to twerk.
What happened to the Grandma, uncle, aunty, family friend to meet that need.
Providing childcare and nurture, support, advice so the family unit could succeed.
What happened to the notion that a man should be the head of the home to lead.
While the mother took care of the young, preparing their paths to proceed.
When families stayed together not divorcing because they disagreed.
But though the strength and wisdom of the village they reconciled to unite their Creed.
The village understood that raising a child is a communal affair.
Sometimes it’s not blood connected, but friends and neighbors are there.
To offer mutual help, aid and provide strategic support.
Our children are out in the cold, the villagers have fallen short.
Let me leave a question to rest with your thoughts.
If we bring the children back in the village, will we keep them out of the grave and criminal court
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